Help me change direction

Hi. I seem to have lost my track and am attracting all that I don't want.....
Guys that are too busy
Guys that mAke no effort
Guys that just aren't interested in me
Or I get there just to late and some other women beats me to it (but the weird thing in nearly all the cases this has happened in recently, they have ended up full on I've met my soul mate etc type relationships that they find when previously the guy had been drifting like me)

I can't work out why this has started to happen or what happened 6 or so months ago to put me on this vibration

I want to attract a nice hardworking, honest, open guy (who is a great dad if he has kids) that understands that I have kids and limited time and that makes an effort.


Simples......yes!?!? Nooooooooo I get variations but no relationship and currently no options at all......

First of all yay! I am very happy to see you back here

Now, I remember when I got to the point when I was trying to attract a good relationship, where I was looking at every guy and wondering "Is that him?'', then I only met deadbeats or nothing at all.
When I decided that "Ahh, I'm just gonna relax and let him come whenever the time is right", I met the right guy straight away.

I think if you go through a set of setbacks then with each one you are building a belief that there must be something wrong with you or you are doing something wrong, that what you desire is too good to be true for you or that you are just unlucky.

Instead you can just say- it was all just a reflection of my old fears, I am a new person now and now, that I am putting out the vibration of knowing I am loved, perfect as I am and my perfect guy will be brought to me, you can just let go and stop looking. Just know it's a done deal, get excited about it being on its way and how good it's gonna feel.

Remember what Neville says: "Those who go out searching for love only make manifest their own lovelessness. And the loveless never find love, only the loving find love, and they never have to seek for it."

lunareclipse wrote:
Remember what Neville says: "Those who go out searching for love only make manifest their own lovelessness. And the loveless never find love, only the loving find love, and they never have to seek for it."

I love this!

And yes, great to see you back Sparkly.

Thanks