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Confused
I don't get it!
I'm told I am kind and caring all the time (co workers and a friend) and I'm gorgeous yet I get unmatched on tinder all the time, and the guy I really like has disappeared from my life
I'm so depressed about it
I'm told I am kind and caring all the time (co workers and a friend) and I'm gorgeous yet I get unmatched on tinder all the time, and the guy I really like has disappeared from my life
I'm so depressed about it
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Oh Bookworm, maybe its because the guys on Tinder aren't a good match for you, rather than the other way around?
maybe you deserve better?
i've been here, i know its so easy to internalise this and think there's something wrong with us... but from experience, the problem is usually with them x
From an Loa perspective it could just be you're not aligned with the type of guy that frequents Tinder?
maybe you deserve better?
i've been here, i know its so easy to internalise this and think there's something wrong with us... but from experience, the problem is usually with them x
From an Loa perspective it could just be you're not aligned with the type of guy that frequents Tinder?
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Night Eyes wrote:Oh Bookworm, maybe its because the guys on Tinder aren't a good match for you, rather than the other way around?
maybe you deserve better?
i've been here, i know its so easy to internalise this and think there's something wrong with us... but from experience, the problem is usually with them x
From an Loa perspective it could just be you're not aligned with the type of guy that frequents Tinder?
I thought I had found my pea in a pod on another website but he's crying foul on mental issues and he's struggling so we aren't together but he's online on the website
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I agree with Night, I wouldn't trust those guys one bit! You're brave to try online dating, I could never do it.
I'm sure that given time a partner will fall into your lap, whether in real life or online!
I'm sure that given time a partner will fall into your lap, whether in real life or online!
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Bookworm, when you say others tell you you're Gorgeous and Kind and caring, make sure YOU tell yourself that aswell
sometimes we forget to give ourselves a bit of love x
sometimes we forget to give ourselves a bit of love x
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Night Eyes wrote:Bookworm, when you say others tell you you're Gorgeous and Kind and caring, make sure YOU tell yourself that aswell
sometimes we forget to give ourselves a bit of love x
Thanks
It feels like I have more friends
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Night Eyes wrote:You'll always have friends here Bookworm
Thanks, I'm just feeling defeated that he's pulled away from me how did I get so lucky to meet him and have intelligent conversations with him etc etc??
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Bookworm, big hugs been there too, one thing that might be happening is that the guy you connected with was an "almost" match, seems perfect on the surface but there's something just not quite right or aligned with what you really want.
This happens to make room for the even more of a match guy to come along.
From what I understand from friends that use tinder, it's more of a "hook up" śite? is that what type of relationship you would like? If not be thankful they aren't contacting you.
This happens to make room for the even more of a match guy to come along.
From what I understand from friends that use tinder, it's more of a "hook up" śite? is that what type of relationship you would like? If not be thankful they aren't contacting you.
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Willow wrote:Bookworm, big hugs been there too, one thing that might be happening is that the guy you connected with was an "almost" match, seems perfect on the surface but there's something just not quite right or aligned with what you really want.
This happens to make room for the even more of a match guy to come along.
From what I understand from friends that use tinder, it's more of a "hook up" śite? is that what type of relationship you would like? If not be thankful they aren't contacting you.
He contacted me on okcupid not tinder.
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(Hi Willow! It's me, ManifestWithArmine.)
Hi Bookworm,
If you will step back for a moment and observe your circumstance, you'll notice that your focus is on facts, and those facts are the ones that don't line up with what you want to manifest.
Turn off the apps and sites for a few days and spend some time each day relaxing on your bed or in a chair, thinking only about what you want to see for yourself. Forget the person, just pinpoint in some way how it feels to be with them and for the relationship to be mutual. Forget how, focus solely on what you're looking to achieve here in 'real life' experience.
If you did this, we'll all know from what your posts will be in a few days. Have fun and don't look for answers, because they don't like to show themselves when you're looking in that way
Hi Bookworm,
If you will step back for a moment and observe your circumstance, you'll notice that your focus is on facts, and those facts are the ones that don't line up with what you want to manifest.
Turn off the apps and sites for a few days and spend some time each day relaxing on your bed or in a chair, thinking only about what you want to see for yourself. Forget the person, just pinpoint in some way how it feels to be with them and for the relationship to be mutual. Forget how, focus solely on what you're looking to achieve here in 'real life' experience.
If you did this, we'll all know from what your posts will be in a few days. Have fun and don't look for answers, because they don't like to show themselves when you're looking in that way
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(((Armine)))) lovely to see you here
@bookworm a lot of online dating sites are used for hook ups not just tinder. Not saying or implying the guy was just hooking up with you, but that is the nature of online dating scene that I have seen.
Do you have hobbies or interests in real world? This is a much better way imo to meet someone at least you get to meet the real person and they already share common interests with you (something to talk about straight away).
The thing I didn't like with online dating scene is you can never be sure the person sitting behind the screen is who they say they are.
@bookworm a lot of online dating sites are used for hook ups not just tinder. Not saying or implying the guy was just hooking up with you, but that is the nature of online dating scene that I have seen.
Do you have hobbies or interests in real world? This is a much better way imo to meet someone at least you get to meet the real person and they already share common interests with you (something to talk about straight away).
The thing I didn't like with online dating scene is you can never be sure the person sitting behind the screen is who they say they are.
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I've sent you a pm Armine
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Just replied! Follow it exactly and have fun with it! No asking but how this or but how that... you already know all you need to know! Let the universe surprise you. It's more fun that way. Remember to come back to this thread to share your story.
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